Monday, January 30, 2006

Introducing Solid Foods

Wow! How time flies! Now she's ready to have solid foods! We started with rice cereal and banana and oh, how much she loves that! She did not eat a lot at first but once she got used to the experience, she cleans up her plate and Nanay can attest to that! :)


Here are some tips to know when your baby is ready (from baby.com):
  • Head control. To eat solids, your baby needs to be able to keep his head in a steady, upright position.

  • Losing the "extrusion reflex." To keep solids in his mouth and then swallow them, your baby needs to stop using his tongue to push food out of his mouth.

  • Sitting well when supported. Even if he's not quite ready for a highchair, your baby will need to be able to sit upright to swallow well.

  • Chewing motions. Your baby's mouth and tongue develop in sync with his digestive system. To start solids, he should be able to move food to the back of his mouth and swallow. As he learns to swallow efficiently, you may notice less drooling. He may also be teething around the same time. (To aid in both teething and developing her chewing ability, we give her fruit in a mesh bag that she can hold on and gnaw on without having to worry that she would bite the fruit and choke herself. Thanks to Cristy for introducing this product to us!)

  • Significant weight gain. Most babies are ready to eat solids when they've doubled their birth weight (or weigh about 15 pounds) and are at least 4 months old.

  • Growing appetite. He seems hungry after eight to ten feedings of breast milk or formula in a day.

  • Curiosity about what you're eating. Your baby may begin eyeing your bowl of rice or reaching for a forkful of fettuccini as it travels from your plate to your mouth.

How should I go about introducing solid food?

A good rule of thumb is to start with rice cereal, which is gluten-free and less allergenic than other foods. First nurse or bottle-feed your baby. Then give him one or two teaspoons of dry cereal mixed with enough formula or breast milk to make a semi-liquid. Use a rubber-tipped spoon when you feed your baby, to avoid injuring his gums. Start with just a small amount on the tip of the spoon.

If your baby doesn't seem very interested in eating off the spoon, let him smell and taste the cereal or wait until he warms up to the idea of eating something solid. Don't add solid food to your baby's bottle or he may not make the connection that food is to be eaten sitting up and from a spoon.

Begin with a once-a-day feeding, whenever it's convenient for you. Your baby may not eat much at all in the beginning, but give him time to get used to the experience. Some babies need practice keeping food in their mouths and swallowing. Once he gets used to his new diet, he'll be ready for a few tablespoons of cereal a day. As the amount he eats increases, gradually thicken the consistency of the cereal and add another feeding. Your baby should be able to eat about a half-cup of cereal a day before you add other solid foods.

Do I still need to give my baby breast milk or formula?

Yes, your baby will need breast milk or formula until he's a year old. Both provide important vitamins, iron, and protein in an easy-to-digest form. Solid food can't replace all the nutrients that breast milk or formula provides during that first year.

How should I introduce other solid food?

Introduce other solids gradually, one at a time, waiting at least three days after each new food. This way you'll get a heads-up if your baby has an allergic reaction to one of them (signs of an allergy may include diarrhea, a bloated tummy, increased gas, or a rash). If there's a family history of allergies, or your baby develops an allergic reaction during this process, start waiting up to a week between new foods.

Even though it's a good idea to get your baby accustomed to eating a wide variety of foods, it'll take time for him to get used to each new taste and texture. Each baby will have unique food preferences, but the transition should go something like this:

1. Semi-liquid cereals

2. Strained or mashed fruits and vegetables

3. Finely chopped table foods, including meat and other protein sources

When your baby has mastered cereal, offer a few tablespoons of vegetables or fruit in the same meal as a cereal feeding. Good foods to start with include sweet potatoes, squash, applesauce, bananas, carrots, oatmeal, peaches, and pears. All food should be strained or mushy — at this stage your baby will press the food against the top of his mouth and then swallow.

If you're feeding your baby from ready-to-eat jars of baby food, scoop some into a little dish and feed him from that.If you dip his feeding spoon into the jar, you won't be able to save the leftovers because you'll have introduced bacteria from his mouth into the jar. Also, throw away any baby food jars within a day or two of opening them.

Some experts recommend introducing yellow fruits and vegetables first because they're easiest to digest, but others advise going green from the start so your baby doesn't develop a preference for the sweeter taste of the yellow foods. It's up to you which route to take. Either way, don't leave any food off his menu simply because you don't like it. And stay away from foods that might cause an allergic reaction early on, and foods that might cause him to choke.

If your baby turns away from a particular food, don't push. Try again in a week or so. He may never like sweet potatoes, or he may change his mind several times and end up loving them.

Don't be surprised if your baby's stools change color and odor when you add solids to his diet. If your baby has been exclusively breastfed up to this point, you'll probably notice a strong odor to his formerly sweet-smelling stools as soon as he starts eating even tiny amounts of solids. This is normal. If his stools seem too firm (rice cereal, bananas, and applesauce can contribute to constipation), switch to other fruits and vegetables and oatmeal or barley cereal.


How many times a day should my baby be eating solid food?

At first he'll eat semi-liquid cereal mix just once a day. By around 8 months he should be eating solid food three times a day. A typical day's diet at this point might consist of:

• Breast milk or iron-fortified formula

• Iron-fortified cereal

• Yellow and green vegetables

• Fruit

• Small amounts of protein such as poultry, cottage cheese, tofu, and meat

There are certain foods that you shouldn't give your baby yet. Honey, for example, can cause botulism in babies under a year old. And commonly allergenic foods such as peanut butter, cow's milk, shellfish, citrus (including juices), and egg whites should also be avoided for a year or more, depending on how careful you want to be about potential allergies. (For more details, see "Foods That Can Be Unsafe for Your Baby.")


Do I need any special equipment?

Just a highchair and a rubber-tipped spoon to protect your baby's sensitive gums. As your baby starts eating more you may find that a bib, a plastic dish with a suction bottom, and a splat mat on the floor can help keep messes to a minimum.


Where should I feed my baby?

To establish good eating habits — like eating at the table instead of in front of the television — it's a good idea to feed your baby in his highchair whenever you can. Handing him finger foods on the run can also cause him to choke (not to mention trail mashed banana across the carpet). If your baby isn't ready for a highchair, seat him in your lap. Just make sure that he's upright enough to swallow well.


How can I help my child develop healthy eating habits?

• Don't overfeed your baby. Watch for cues that he's full.
• Don't try to make your child eat food he doesn't like. Respect his preferences and avoid power struggles over food.
• Try to provide a balance of protein, carbohydrates, fruits, and vegetables. Use sweets, salts, and fats in moderation.
• Avoid fast food for as long as possible.
• Don't bribe or reward your child with food. Instead, offer plenty of hugs, kisses, and attention.
• Feed your baby in his highchair whenever possible, rather than in front of the television or on the go.

Sunday, January 15, 2006

Infant Massage

Like every new parent, we want the best for our baby. Since I don't have my mother with me to give me advice, I relied on books, magazines and the internet on what's best for my baby. After all, they should be the experts in this field. Although, one could argue that mother knows best still. So, to avoid that conflict, I feel that I should do my homework but have the last word on it all. I filter what I read and apply only those ideas that I think, as far as my logic and my busy schedule allows, is feasible and that she likes. (you bet she tells me if she likes it or not! hehe!) And infant massage is one of them! So, here is a guide to infant massage from baby.com:

A Guide to Infant Massage
Research shows that massage can relax babies, improve their sleep patterns, and calm them when they are irritable. Infant massage should last about 15 minutes. Don't worry if you have only five or ten minutes: even a short massage is good for your baby. Choose a warm, quiet room and play background music if you like. (I usually do it at night before she goes to bed and so I always play lullaby music or just sing to her lullaby songs after all I have a good voice! Hahaha!)

Using a lotion or oil will help reduce friction and make the massage more soothing. Make sure you use a product that is gentle enough for your infant's skin.

Start with your baby lying on his stomach. Then gently rub your hands (make sure they're warm) back and forth six times on each of the following areas for about one minute in each area:

1. From the top of your baby's head to his neck

2. From his neck across his shoulders

3. From his upper back to his waist

4. From his thigh to his foot and back to his thigh, on each leg

5. From his shoulder to his hand and back to his shoulder, on each arm

Now turn your baby over onto his back so that he is facing you. Move each of his arms gently, flexing it and then straightening it. Exercise each arm and each leg in this way, and then both legs, as if he were pedaling a tiny bicycle, for a total of five minutes.To finish your baby's massage, turn him back on his stomach and repeat the first sequence.

Throughout the massage, remember to be sensitive and responsive to your baby. Learn to recognize when your baby tells you that he's not interested or that he's had enough. Your baby might do the following to tell you he would rather be doing something else:
  • turn his head away
  • "crunch up" his forehead
  • suck in his cheeks
  • grimace
  • fuss
  • cry

As you give your baby more massages, you'll gradually find a routine that works best for both of you. And with all your love and attention focused on him, you and your baby will be truly in touch.

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Happy New Year 2006


Never end a wish without whispering
"I believe..."
...and make the new year
your dream come true year.

A New Year calls for the celebration of everything that has happened, of the places that have been visited, of the people that have touched you and of the memories that have been created. Looking back, it was a great year for us. And looking at the little angel sleeping in the crib will attest to that. Looking forward, we will certainly feel that a miracle is happening everyday in our lives.